What to Expect from a Cake Smash Session
There’s something truly magical about watching a baby explore a cake for the first time—the curiosity, the hesitant little fingers, and then the full-on, frosting-covered delight. Cake smash sessions are one of my absolute favorite ways to celebrate a first birthday because every single one is unique. No two babies react the same way, and that’s what makes these sessions so much fun.
Some babies dive right in, squealing with joy as they grab handfuls of cake like they’ve been waiting for this moment their entire lives. Others? Well, they’re a little more skeptical—poking at the frosting, looking at their parents for reassurance, or sometimes refusing to touch it at all. And that’s okay! Whether your little one is a cake-loving enthusiast or a bit more reserved, we always find a way to capture those sweet, once-in-a-lifetime moments.
One of the first things I always ask parents is what kind of theme and setting they envision. Do you picture a studio setup with a colorful backdrop and balloons? Or maybe a more natural, outdoor look with soft lighting and minimal props? Each choice gives a different feel to the final images, and I love helping families create a setup that reflects their little one’s personality.
Another question that often comes up—does the session include a smash cake? Some photographers provide them, some offer them as an add-on, and others ask parents to bring their own. Either way, choosing the right cake can make a big difference. A soft, buttercream-covered cake is ideal because it’s easy for tiny hands to dig into (and let’s be honest, it just makes for better “smash” photos than a fondant-covered cake).
Then there’s the preparation. While some babies take to the mess without hesitation, others need a little warm-up. I always recommend doing a practice cake smash at home with a cupcake a few days before the session. Let them explore the texture, get a little messy, and get used to the idea of squishing food with their hands—it can make a big difference on the big day!
And of course, the session itself is always full of surprises. No matter how much we plan, babies have their own ideas. Some will laugh and play, others might need a little encouragement (pro tip: hiding tiny snacks like puffs or Cheerios in the cake can work wonders). No matter the reaction, I always reassure parents—we will get the shots. Even if it feels like total chaos in the moment, there are always those sweet, candid moments that make the session unforgettable.
After all the fun (and the mess), the excitement continues when you receive your final gallery. Seeing your little one’s personality shine through in these photos is such a special way to celebrate their first year. Whether they smashed the cake with full enthusiasm or just dipped a tiny finger in, the memories are priceless.
Cake smash sessions are messy, unpredictable, and full of joy—exactly what makes them so special. So if you're wondering whether to book one, my answer is always yes. Because nothing marks the end of babyhood quite like a frosting-covered face and a room filled with laughter. 🎉💕